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Planning For the Rest of Your Life: The Impatience of a Third Year Medical Student

Blog Post by Elora Apantaku, a medical student at Chicago Medical School

It happened when I was being active in the milieu, playing bananagrams with a handful of occupants admitted to the in-patient psych ward: two suicide attempts, one recurring major depressive disorder not responding to a recent medication change, and a non-psychotic manic depressive who in conversation appeared to be slightly more psychotic than the notes in his chart would suggest. I was rather enjoying myself, realizing that I could spend hours talking to any one of these people. The etiology of mood disorders had always fascinated me and now I was able to explore them by myself, at my leisure.

This was third year. Exhilarating and informative in a way that textbooks and peer speculation could never be.

Although these patients were very kind and open, they were growing frustrated with another patient–a schizoaffective–roaming the common area: she would not stop talking. It wasn’t pressured speech–it was continuous speech. It was rambling, non-directed speech, spoken to the hospital at large, and it was spoken with an annoying twangy accent that could be described as inner city uptown Chicago. Very short A’s.

The bananagram players began to mock her, not to her face, but they began to mimic her monologues as they spelled out intersecting words with the lettered tiles. Halfway through the game, one of my patients, a very irritable and consistently antagonizing schizophrenic sat down at our table and tried to get on my nerves, insulting just about everything he could get his mind to focus on. The guise of bananagrams saved me because I appeared and actually was busy, trying to win a game. He left shortly and I felt relieved to once again be surrounded only by the moods. And I realized, painfully, that I could not go into psychiatry. I loved my patients suffering from mood disorders, but I couldn’t tolerate the psychotic ones for more than a few minutes. And while I could eventually work solely outpatient and see only patients with predominantly mood disorders, psychiatry residency programs are four years long, so I’d be spending four years doing something I could kind of tolerate to do something I’d probably love for the rest of my life.

As a third year nearing the end of her clerkship rotations, I had been spending a disturbing amount of time freaking out–I suppose the correct term would be “having panic attacks”–about my future. But my debate between family medicine and psychiatry is far simpler than some of my friends considering even longer residency programs.

Enter my good friend Annette. Everything about her screams surgeon: her steady, unshakable confidence, her ability to immediately befriend and then joke-around with just about anyone, her size 7.5 gloves for her five foot frame. Surgeon! But if she was to become a surgeon, she would most likely want to go into something very specific: pediatric GI. Her internal debates, one would imagine, would go something like this: waste another five years of my life learning other types of surgeries to eventually get to begin doing fellowships in something I love. Five years. Five years of surgeries on adults. Five years where–yes–she would learn some very important things that would make her a better doctor, but also a lot of things that would ultimately have no bearing on her future dreams. I know we can’t skimp on medical training: patient care, medical mistakes, expertise in the field. But do you really end up learning and excelling in subjects and fields you honestly don’t care about? Whether the training period be three years or eleven?

I consider anyone entering the medical field to be an expert in delayed gratification. But as my friends and I begin to plan out the rest of our lives, it sometimes seems like medicine is again asking a lot of us. I know now from watching so many attendings do what they love, what they are passionate about, and then later complain about it, that medicine will continue to ask a lot of us, and one can only hope to get something out of it. Otherwise, as I’ve been warned cautiously by medical professionals of all generations and ages, you burn out.

Blasphemy, I know. I’ve already spent hundreds of hours preparing for tests that I promptly forgot all the answers to. I’ve delayed seeing my own physicians–sometimes for months–in order to never miss a day of clerkship. I’ve stopped exercising and my diet consists of (and I am not kidding) microwavable popcorn, cheese sticks, and diet coke. Medicine has already asked a lot of us. But this was my choice, my decision. I can’t burn out because I’ve barely begun. I’m still excited by everything I’m learning and still eager to learn more. I still want to help people, even at the expense of my own health and sometimes happiness. For me, my choice is easy: I’ve always felt strongly about family medicine, and as it turns out, you see a lot of psych patients in primary care settings. “Family medicine: where you see everything and the residency program is only three years.”

But for my friend Annette, her decision between surgery, pediatrics, and pediatric GI surgery has to take into account how much of her twenties and thirties she wants to live inside of a hospital and what she really, truly is passionate about. I know she will make a great physician. The real question is: how many years will she be required to log before she is allowed to prove it?

Parin Patel

Parin is an OB/GYN resident at the University of Texas Medical Branch. She's been an AMWA member since medical school and has co-authored multiple Position Statements, worked on improving healthcare through AMWA's Preventive Medicine Task Force, and served on several committees. This year she hopes to increase resident involvement as the division's Recruitment Chair. She enjoys working with all of the inspirational AMWA members and promoting women's health.

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